What a blog - I'm glad I found you! I'm a 33 year old African American and while I hold my own against black and white men, I am totally submissive to strong white women. I defer to them in business and social situations and even serve them when directed. Think this comes from high school; I was the first ever black prom queen and the white runner up waited for me after school, surprised me and kicked my ass. I was her puppy (and pussy cleaner) for the rest of the year. Again, thanks.